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Hi everyone. Long time, no see.

I need to find the "What every WS needs to know" thread. I believe it's pinned in the Wayward forum. I was banned from there,long ago,so I can't find it.

Unfortunately, my oldest son is now a ws. He told me yesterday. He's coming by today,for advice, I believe. To say I'm disappointed is an understatement.

I know what he needs to do,if he has a chance to R. Right now, I'm not sure he will be offered that gift. I love my boy,but trust that I'm on my daughter in laws side. But,he is asking,so I will share my hard earned knowledge with him. I'm doing it for my DIL. If she wants R, she deserves to have a ws who knows what he needs to do. I'd like to send him the post I've asked for, because I know it will help him.

No. I won't send him here. For a variety of reasons. I also won't be hiding anything that says "SI." If he chooses to come, it will be of his own accord. I believe the ws who seeks this site out,themselves, are more likely to truly want the help offered. But I won't send him here.

Thank you.

Hi dear friend.

What do you need, a link to it here?

I’m posting this here in good faith, I am not aware that I’m violating any guidelines in doing, apologies if I’m wrong.

https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/topics/324250/things-that-every-ws-needs-to-know/

[This message edited by InkHulk at 3:17 PM, Sunday, January 26th]

You can view the post if you sign out and go back to SI. My guess is that you can highlight it and copy to a word processor, etc. or print it from there.

You can also get it here from the Healing Library: https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/documents/library/articles/recovery/what-every-ws-needs-to-know/,

I'm sorry your son screwed up, and so badly.

*****

Ink, If you're banned from a forum here, you can click on any link you like, but you won't get access if you're signed on.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 4:20 PM, Sunday, January 26th]

Thank you,gentleman. That's what I needed.