Topic is Sleeping.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 7:42 PM on Saturday, October 16th, 2021
the1stWife, that would be hilarious. I hope I can do that.
Another way to handle his attempt to chat is to just answer every question with "my lawyer told me not to discuss that".
More random responses to his questions. Just keep dodging the bullets. .
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 10 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
BetterTimesAhead (original poster member #70001) posted at 11:37 PM on Saturday, October 16th, 2021
The1stWife, I told him this was the last discussion I was having regarding anything with the D. I told him to get his attorney what he needs so we can have our sit down and hopefully get this settled. No more discussions with me. And he really thinks telling me how despicable I am in an email is going to get me to let him have his way? I just don't understand the rationale. When is this going to be over?????
Me: BS - 56 Him: WH - 57 DDAY: 2/22/2019 - Three year EA and PA Filed for D 9/2021 - signed the papers 8/2023 - time to rebuild***************An apology without the action to back it up is just manipulation.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 1:18 AM on Sunday, October 17th, 2021
It will be over one day. The good news is that in your eyes the marriage is over snd he has been summarily dismissed.
Narcissistic idiots and control freaks hate that!
I like his unique approach. Insult the opponent to get what you want. I can see that working for him!! 
(Sarcasm)
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 10 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
BetterTimesAhead (original poster member #70001) posted at 6:08 PM on Tuesday, October 19th, 2021
Yes I don't understand it the1stWife - how insulting me is supposed to motivate me to try harder to please him? I don't get it. He also said how sorry he is, wishes he knew how to change things so I wasn't angry, hurt, etc (not like he even tried), he's trying to handle things in a peaceful way, he's sorry things have gotten to the point they have and he has no ill will towards me, that I've made my wishes clear and he is just trying to settle things in the most peaceful way possible. I told him his words are hollow without actions to back them up. No response from him on that one.
Me: BS - 56 Him: WH - 57 DDAY: 2/22/2019 - Three year EA and PA Filed for D 9/2021 - signed the papers 8/2023 - time to rebuild***************An apology without the action to back it up is just manipulation.
Topic is Sleeping.
