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This treatment will last as long as you stick around for it. What are you getting out of this "relationship?" Sounds like you'd be happier and better off alone. At least you won't be mistreated.

@this0is0fine, so how to step out of it?

@StillLivin, well we are together for thirty years, we have (grown )children and a life we build together. Im fifty tree now. Probably im codependent. I have been trying to grow up emotionally and to be there for my children.

I have been separated from her in the past because of some travelling. And i always yearned to be with her again.

I have my issues, so if she use these as an argument for her case... I do acknowledge that people could misunderstand my intentions.

You have to be willing to choose to leave if she won't be a devoted wife.

"You can date your boyfriend, but not as my wife."

[This message edited by This0is0Fine at 4:03 PM, Saturday, November 9th]

My wife has another, he is a married man and in most or every aspect better than me: richer, higher educated, emotionally available to his kids, looks, maturity and so on.

I'd like to know if this wonderful guy's wife knows that he's having an affair with your wife? Don't ask your wife this question, but directly contact his wife and ask if she is aware he is having an affair with your wife. I believe that for most women all those adjectives that you used to describe him will mean nothing if they find out he has betrayed them and has been dishonest and unfaithful.

Again: Does his wife know what is going on in her marriage?

Hi Karel,

How are you going?
Has your wife made a decision yet?

We are here to support you,
Regards,
FAWH