me: BS-39 Him: WH -40 DD1- 5/2018 (multiple ONS, AP1- 9 Months EA/PA, AP2- 1 yr+ ongoing long distance A, EA/ PA) DD2-11/2018 (Continued A with AP2 while on R) separate: 11/2018 No kids

Am I overreacting?

It has been a while since I have posted anything, and I believed that I had a second chance with a new person I met.

I have been in this new relationship for about 8 months. We are having a great relationship, he is caring, and thoughtful and I have fallen in love with him. He hasn't reciprocated the same feelings yet, and that has caused me some anxiety. Maybe it is this anxiety that made me do it and I am ashamed to admit that I went through his phone. I couldn't resist the feeling. This was how I found out my Ex was cheating- and I know it was just a terrible thing.

It revealed that my Bf has met with his ex gf twice recently, and he never told me about it. It looked like they met for a beer first that is after year and a half, and the next time she transported some chairs he bought off on craigslist. It sounds harmless, but I am not feeling Ok with this.

Maybe it is perfectly normal and being close friends with Ex's is common. I still occasionally talk to my ex-husband that cheated on me.

Am I overreacting? Does he need to tell me he met with his ex? Since he didn't what does that mean? Is this all because I am hurt before? I feel like I have become so fragile since the betrayal and have become even more vulnerable. Maybe I am not ready for a new beginning? Am I scarred for ever?

Thank you for reading and please share if you have any advice..

6 comments posted: Friday, May 22nd, 2020