And he's gone...
School ended and I took my kids to visit my parents so my WH could get all his stuff out. Coming home to a half-empty closet, an empty dresser, a messy/dirty house, and strange things taken (like one of our wedding pictures and a "bedroom game") it hit me much harder than I thought it would. After two physical affairs (that I am aware of) and numerous emotional affairs, I know I deserve better. I know I need to show my kids that this is not how we treat people.
Here's my question...
How did you tell people? I am talking my college girlfriends that (pre-covid) I would take summer trips with, but I haven't seen in a while. Or my friends from my old neighborhood that I moved 6 hours away from for WH's job. Or my Aunts/Uncles/Cousins. Did you tell your boss? Coworkers? Any advice or anecdotal stories about what worked for you is appreciated.
8 comments posted: Wednesday, June 16th, 2021