6 months since D-Day
Hi all,
This is the first time I’m posting as I can no longer do this alone. Without talking to people I’m unsure if I’m on the track to recovery or this is something I will never get over.
6 months ago I was messaged out the blue by the parter of who my husband had the affair with. I knew her and she had been a friend of mine. Screen shot of screen shot of messages they had sent one another. I had no idea this was all going on behind my back. It was not an emotional affair but a physical one.
Since this day it has always been with me, sometimes manageable other times it’s all to overwhelming. My husband has been so honest with me and told me everything. After six months I thought I would be further along in the healing process then i am and I’m scared that this is now who I am. certain messages go round and round my head, where they met, what they did. It’s like a movie that just won’t stop and the pain of the done and the messages are just to much still and it still continues to consume.
Please help is this normal, can a marriage survive infertility, will I ever not have this pain. My husband and I have probably been the best we’ve ever been and we’re really working on us as a couple to strive for our new norm.
Thank you for reading
11 comments posted: Saturday, March 30th, 2024
