Ex had 2 lives
My x had a second life. He traveled for work. She became the "work wife" she wd travel w/him, his company even knew. I stayed home and raised the kids for 30yrs. He on the other hand maintained this facade for 13.5YEARS. Yes you read correctly. He came home to me on wkends to play house, and get another need met (yes from her too) this has left me in a spiral. Therepy,meds still difficult funny thing is…."he says he did nothing wrong. Narcissist at its finest. If you commit a crime you go to jail. This the courts w/not even file the truth. Emotional abuse is something no one talks about. better off I know but scars are very deep!
We have 3 grown son's. Yes, I want them to have a relationship w/him, I have heard from them "he's still my dad". Yet, I have not ever felt supported my son's. They have never held him accoutable. They still have their wkends away w/him ect. He is still w/the hw it seems like she took over my life. Took my dogs,my house,my bed everything. I feel as if I am punished for his crime. It has been years since I found out yet it still feels like yesterday. I just do not understand...him,her and my boy's. Why am I treated like I commited a crime and they act as if nothing happened. 
6 comments posted: Monday, February 19th, 2024
