Help... what do I do?

I figured out my live-in partner of 3 years has been cheating, probably for some time. I left an AirTag in his truck and saw that he was at an ex-girlfreinds house 2 months ago so a couple of days later I checked his MacBook for messages and took screenshots of the sexting. I have been trying to catch him at her house for 2 months now with no luck - AirTags are NOT reliable. None of the contacts in his iphone have names - only numbers, he plays 'games' on his phone a lot, and now he has multi-factor authentication on his laptops - SUPER Secretive/Suspicious. I can either put a tracker on his truck or somehow get a hold of his iphone and install spyware. I am pretty sure there might be 1 or 2 more women so I want to see the full extent and length of his infidelity. I confronted him 8 months ago about suspicious activity and he gaslighted me so I have to have solid proof! I thought we were great and we have sex at least 2x a week but I realize he is a narcissist and needs the attention or the rush... I don't know :( ...any advice?

13 comments posted: Sunday, March 10th, 2024

Super Secretive and hard to catch!!!

I figured out my live-in partner of 3 years has been cheating, probably for some time. I left an AirTag in his truck and saw that he was at an ex-girlfreinds house 2 months ago so a couple of days later I checked his MacBook for messages and took screenshots of the sexting. I have been trying to catch him at her house for 2 months now with no luck - AirTags are NOT reliable. I must not have been sneaky enough because now he has multi-factor authentication on his laptops so he might suspect. I can either put a tracker on his truck or somehow get a hold of his iphone and install spyware. I am pretty sure there might be 1 or 2 more women so I want to see the full extent and length of his infidelity. I confronted him 8 months ago about suspicious activity and he gaslighted me so I have to have solid proof! I thought we were great and we have sex at least 2x a week but I realize he is a narcissist and needs the attention or the rush... I don't know :(

0 comment posted: Saturday, March 9th, 2024