Delete evidence?
Hey all, I might not get some abbreviations correct but I just wanted to get some advice here because I'm not currently able to do Individual Counseling.
My husband was cheating (April 2024, we just had our daughter who was only 3 months old) by talking to multiple women, downloading Tinder, and trying to ask for sex. I have screenshots of these messages. We are trying to reconcile but I'm not sure if I delete everything so I don't look again, or if I keep it to remind myself or him how awful this was. My gut tells me that if I truly want to move on, I'd better get rid of it. He has apologized and been regretful and remorseful and has done many things to move us forward.
What did y'all do when you had physical (digital) evidence?
Thanks for the feedback.
8 comments posted: Thursday, February 20th, 2025
