somethingremorse ( member #42047) posted at 6:14 PM on Thursday, January 8th, 2015
rachelc in Recon post. I think it's just a malaprop, but it's too good to not repeat:
If I could put my behind in the past I would be having a happy life. It's very hard.
Me: WH (40s)
DDay 11/03/13
In MC and IC
rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 7:50 PM on Thursday, January 8th, 2015
ha ha! Actually it's from the Lion King! But it makes so much sense!
somethingremorse ( member #42047) posted at 4:42 PM on Friday, January 9th, 2015
That's right. It's been a long time since Lion King in my house.
Me: WH (40s)
DDay 11/03/13
In MC and IC
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 6:31 PM on Friday, January 9th, 2015
"There is a fifth dimension beyond that which is known to faithful man. It is a dimension of infinite selfishness and emptiness. It is the tainted ground between lies and weakness, reality and insanity, and it lies beneath the pit of man’s fears, and far beneath the summit of his honor. This is the dimension of unicorn farts. It is an area which we call ... The Wayward Wife Zone."
MadeOfScars in the Betrayed Menz thread. Classic.
MadeOfScars ( member #42231) posted at 2:24 AM on Saturday, January 10th, 2015
I'm blushing. Thanks Losfer! 
What happened next in the Menz thread was this courtesy of Forged1-
Infidelity is a crucible. It will take everything you know about yourself and melt it down. You can stay molten forever, or you can use the energy to hammer yourself into something else, something that's beautiful, and lethal and fucking unbreakable.
Your true self.
Powerful.
[This message edited by MadeOfScars at 8:29 PM, January 9th (Friday)]
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t.” - Steve Maraboli
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:47 AM on Saturday, January 10th, 2015
Another gem from Forged1
The theft of love is what put us on this path.
The gift of love, to ourselves and to others, is what will enable us to walk it all the way home.
We're here. We'll be okay, even if it doesn't feel like it at times.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 10:51 PM on Monday, January 19th, 2015
I like making people laugh. It's like winning without having to choke everyone into unconsciousness.
StillGoing on a thread in Recon.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 5:37 PM on Tuesday, January 20th, 2015
I simply held on to any sign of a person I could love, admire, trust... like picking up a quarter out of a pile of shit and holding it up triumphantly and ignoring the pile of shit.
Quote from MakingMyFuture in D/S thread "It
Couldn't Have Been Love".
[This message edited by Lola2kids at 11:38 AM, January 20th (Tuesday)]
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 1:15 AM on Wednesday, January 28th, 2015
I've never had body-image issues, and I'm sure as hell NOT going to borrow some from somebody who can't hold his whizz.
Funnelcakes in General, talking about her WH dissing her post-baby vajajay and then wetting the bed in his sleep.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
funnelcakes ( member #45249) posted at 11:06 PM on Thursday, January 29th, 2015
^^^ Aw, shucks. One man's Pissghazi is a woman's comic relief.
d-day in August of 2014, when I was SAHM 34 weeks pregnant with kid #3
A year of incontinent alcoholic cheater word salad and shitweasely blameshifting during R/S
I got a job and busted a move with three kids to a 1BR apt
D final 4/27/17.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:41 AM on Friday, February 6th, 2015
Then we have to go through OH MY GOD IT'S A WALK WE ARE GOING ON A WALK WALK! WALK! WALK! HURRY! WALK! BARK BARK BARKETY FUCKING BARK
Rebreather making me fall out of the chair laughing at her interpretation of her dogs' enthusiasm.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
MakingMyFuture ( member #43530) posted at 2:51 AM on Monday, February 9th, 2015
cantaccept in the 'Just F**k these a**h*l*s' thread in D/S.
"I know he was projecting who he was onto me. He thought like that so assumed I did also. I did the same, except in reverse. I believed he was better than he was."
Never heard it put so well in just a few words.
[This message edited by MakingMyFuture at 8:57 PM, February 8th (Sunday)]
When people show you who they really are, believe them - Maya Angelou
BW: 43 (me) WH: 42 (him)
DD-13, DS-11
DDay 1 = 1/13, DDay2 = 7/14 (False R), D 4/15
MakingMyFuture ( member #43530) posted at 3:01 AM on Monday, February 9th, 2015
funnelcakes in General on the Lizards, Weasels, and Flooding Post talking about therapist insight into the male primitive brain function in fight, flight or freeze response to stress.
"I have never been so pleased to downgrade my husband to a lower class of vertebrate."
When people show you who they really are, believe them - Maya Angelou
BW: 43 (me) WH: 42 (him)
DD-13, DS-11
DDay 1 = 1/13, DDay2 = 7/14 (False R), D 4/15
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 2:05 AM on Sunday, February 22nd, 2015
I've been complimented lots of times for keeping it classy especially when he went full tacky bogan.
More gold from SBB on why the high road is worth it.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 4:25 AM on Monday, February 23rd, 2015
Through all this, why do I get invited to her IC if she's done with me? Gah
.
Probably so you can pay for it. And then buy her another lunch afterwards
Forged's response to devotedman's thinking that there was something *significant* in his WGF's request in General.
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:00 PM on Thursday, February 26th, 2015
From Nitrobob:
SI is the Manhattan project of infidelity.
silverhopes ( member #32753) posted at 2:56 PM on Thursday, February 26th, 2015
Closure is closing the door and not answering when they knock.
- Dr. Jekyll, in a thread in R forum called "OW is moving elsewhere. Asks meeting with WH."
Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 2:01 AM on Friday, February 27th, 2015
And tell his mom to go fuck herself with a pineapple.
h0peless in S/D, talking about an evil MIL.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 2:47 AM on Saturday, February 28th, 2015
it is the fault of our own tongues that forsake our abilities to describe our perplexis
jjct on describing the indescribable agony of the BS.
*There are no words* in *smart* speech. It describes it in a way.....
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:32 PM on Saturday, February 28th, 2015
^^^This. I literally stood up and clapped when I read jj's post. 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
