Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 1:08 AM on Friday, February 19th, 2021
I’m thankful that this awful weather is almost over, we are in the Dallas area and have not lost electricity once, all our pipes are still flowing and propane is full. Being locked in together with W and kids, for a week, has really put R to the test, so far so good
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
ff4152 ( member #55404) posted at 12:57 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2021
A day late but...
My wife and child had to work last night and their commute is quite long. I’m extremely thankful that both trips were uneventful and they made it home safe and sound.
ff4152 ( member #55404) posted at 2:41 AM on Friday, February 26th, 2021
Didn’t miss it this week, so I’m thankful for that.
Hit a bump in my R. In my mind it was pretty big; now that I’ve had some time to think about it, I probably overreacted. I’m thankful that I’ve recognized rather than sit in a corner and sulk.
I’m thankful for the new training regimen I’m on. Kicked my ass tonight but I made it through.
As always, I’m thankful for my family and their continued health.
outofsorts ( member #70701) posted at 3:28 AM on Saturday, February 27th, 2021
A day late but wanted to say I'm thankful WH got his second shot today!
He's been working at hospitals about 60% of the past year, often on COVID floors. So it's a huge relief that he's protected and moreso that the risk of him spreading COVID to others is much lower.... He's often in five different locations a week with his job so he's been afraid he'd be the source of some type of superspreader event.
Me(BW): 40WH: 40 Married 7 years, together 20.
Dday 2/22/19 Reconciling
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 11:16 PM on Thursday, March 4th, 2021
I’m thankful for some personal growth I’ve been going through. I know I say this a lot but SI folks have helped me so much. I really feel like my R journey is headed in a great direction
In just a few days will be our 30th wedding anniversary, I admit to having some anxiety about it, but I’m damn proud of it and will be celebrating it. I’m proud that in 30 years my W does not understand what it feels like to be a BS.
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
ff4152 ( member #55404) posted at 11:39 PM on Thursday, March 11th, 2021
Just to keep this going
I am thankful for a bit of insight I had this week. I was getting ready to bitch about someone and tried looking at the situation from there point of view.
I’m thankful that the new community I joined has been both acceptable and welcoming.
As always, I’m thankful for my wife and child, always the most important people in my life.
grubs ( member #77165) posted at 12:43 AM on Friday, March 12th, 2021
Just managed to snag my vaccine appts Tuesday morning and a month out
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 1:32 AM on Friday, March 12th, 2021
Had a great anniversary date. Had some great business achievements this week.
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
outofsorts ( member #70701) posted at 2:04 AM on Friday, March 12th, 2021
It was in the 60s today and I'm now sitting here with a purring cat on my lap.
Sometimes its the little things
Me(BW): 40WH: 40 Married 7 years, together 20.
Dday 2/22/19 Reconciling
fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 2:24 AM on Friday, March 12th, 2021
Our indoor pools recently reopened, and I got to spend a few hours in the pool splashing and laughing with my two grandkids. It is definitely the little things.
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
Underserving ( member #72259) posted at 3:06 AM on Friday, March 12th, 2021
I am thankful for some personal growth and healing that has very recently taken place.
I’m thankful for my kiddos, even when they drive me bonkers.
I’m thankful for the man my WH is TODAY. Which that’s a big fucking deal for me to even say.
I’m thankful for the warm weather! I hate being cold
BW (32)Found out 3 years post end of AD-day 12-9-19In R
Infidelity brings out the cuss in me. I’m not as foul mouthed in real life. ;)
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 5:21 AM on Friday, March 12th, 2021
I’m thankful for the man my WH is TODAY.
I’m thankful to be reading this. This is progress underserving
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
This0is0Fine ( member #72277) posted at 6:41 PM on Thursday, March 18th, 2021
I am thankful for my fWW's new job, her getting it without me demanding it (foot dragging though it may have been in many ways...), and the first day of true NC.
Love is not a measure of capacity for pain you are willing to endure for your partner.
Oldwounds ( member #54486) posted at 8:11 PM on Thursday, March 18th, 2021
Thankful to see this thread still going.
I take a lot of time away from the ‘net these days, to focus on the good stuff going on in life (and there is good stuff, even in pandemic world). But whenever I stop by to see where folks are in their recovery, it’s great to read the positive moments.
I’ll likely be around again soon, as the five years since discovery mark arrives with better weather.
Married 36+ years, together 41+ years
Two awesome adult sons.
Dday 6/16 4-year LTA Survived.
M Restored
"It is better to conquer our grief than to deceive it." — Seneca
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 7:13 PM on Thursday, March 25th, 2021
I’m thankful that today is my Friday. We are taking our anniversary trip this weekend, nothing fancy just a getaway to celebrate where we are now, winery’s and casinos.
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
ff4152 ( member #55404) posted at 7:51 PM on Thursday, March 25th, 2021
My wife does these little things which illustrate why she is so special. I’m thankful that I can appreciate them now.
I’m also thankful that I’m becoming someone she can be proud of. Someone that truly cherishes her now.
outofsorts ( member #70701) posted at 1:59 AM on Friday, March 26th, 2021
I actually got promoted yesterday. Always a good thing but it's been a terrible year - I'm in an industry hard hit by COVID, half the company has been laid off and I was reduced to part time from October through the end of January. I worked my ass off for the past year and am glad to see some payoff. Thankful that it seems like the work situation is getting better!
Me(BW): 40WH: 40 Married 7 years, together 20.
Dday 2/22/19 Reconciling
ff4152 ( member #55404) posted at 2:28 AM on Friday, April 2nd, 2021
It’s been a rough week but I’m thankful it’s almost over. I’m trying to see the good in things which is a step up from where I was. So I’m thankful for that too.
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 7:19 PM on Thursday, April 8th, 2021
It’s been a great week. My W defused a trigger, she dove in front of it and took the bullet. Really it wasn’t much of a trigger for me, but she owned it.
Happy Friday Eve!!
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
Underserving ( member #72259) posted at 8:36 PM on Thursday, April 8th, 2021
Today I am thankful for healing. I am also thankful for Spring and the sunshine! Life’s pretty good :)
BW (32)Found out 3 years post end of AD-day 12-9-19In R
Infidelity brings out the cuss in me. I’m not as foul mouthed in real life. ;)