Topic is Sleeping.
Notthevictem (original poster member #44389) posted at 5:11 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
I haven't posted olin a while... probably a long while.
I'm coming back today to ask for prayers and mojo. My wife passed this morning.
I don't really have the words to know what to ask for, but if you can spare some prayers and mojo this way, I think I'm gonna need it.
[This message edited by Notthevictem at 5:11 PM, Monday, February 21st]
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 5:43 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Sending you comforting thoughts and prayers.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
humantrampoline ( member #61458) posted at 6:00 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
Wow. I'm sorry Notthevictem. This must be a difficult time. I will say a prayer for you.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 6:33 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
((((NTV)))))
I am soooooo soooo sorry to see this. Prayers, and SI MoJo heading your way.
Please know that the fine folks here at SI are available to support and help you. Feel free to PM me.
(((((And Healing))))
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 7:17 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear this... you'll be in my thoughts.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 7:54 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
Oh NTV i am so very sorry for your loss. Mojo and prayers and hugs.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
OwningItNow ( member #52288) posted at 8:04 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
Oh, no, no, no. I am so very sorry, NTV. Prayers for you and your loved ones. ((((Notthevictim))))
me: BS/WS h: WS/BS
Reject the rejector. Do not reject yourself.
Superesse ( member #60731) posted at 8:41 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
Prayers for you, NTV, and wishes for real life friends and help in abundance.
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 8:43 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
Shit. Sending all good things in your direction today. Reach out to everyone here as it feels right - lots of folks here thinking of you.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 8:49 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
Oh that is so awful. I'm so so sorry you're facing this grief. I hope that you are surrounded by those who love you right now.
DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:39 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
I'm so sorry for your loss, so sorry. Healing mojo on its way.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 9:47 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
I'm so very sorry. Sending prayers
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 11:11 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
NTV—i am so sorry to read this. Please take care of yourself. Deepest condolences to you and your family.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 11:56 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2022
Oh, NTV. I'm so sorry.
I know that most of us are just usernames on a screen to each other, but I hope the heartfelt sympathy behind them gives you some small comfort.
Loukas ( member #47354) posted at 3:53 AM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
I just clicked on a profile to look up some old posts when I noticed your name was active in the last 5 minutes. I hadn’t seen you around in a while and was excited to see you…Geez man, I’m terribly sorry this is what brought you back. You are in my prayers brother, please lean on us for support. You’ve spent more than enough time paying it forward.
ChamomileTea ( Moderator #53574) posted at 4:09 AM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
Gosh, I'm so sorry to hear that. I don't even know where to begin.. you guys are so young. 
BW: 2004(online EAs), 2014 (multiple PAs)
Married 40 years; in R with fWH for 8
HeartFullOfHoles ( member #42874) posted at 5:23 AM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
Sending prayers your way NTV. I hope they bring you comfort.
BH - Tried to R for too long, now happily divorced
D-Day 4/28-29/2012 (both 48 at the time)
Two adult daughters
courageous ( member #34477) posted at 5:37 AM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. If there is anything that I could help you with or if you need someone to talk to, I am here.
Me: BW (in my 40's) Him: ExWH EA/PA with MOW coworker(also married). He ended up marrying his mistress.
emergent8 ( Guide #58189) posted at 5:41 AM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
I’m so sorry. Strength to you.
Me: BS. Him: WS.
D-Day: Feb 2017 (8 m PA with married COW).
Happily reconciled.
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 12:07 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
Wow, this is so crazy how many young lives we are losing lately. My heart goes out to you NTV. Big virtual hugs!
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
Topic is Sleeping.
