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Has anyone had memory loss caused by sex with a betrayer husband?
I was told that I got on the floor after he gave me oral sex and couldn't get back up for 5 hours and refused to have EMS called. I have bruise marks he said were from rolling around the floor and I finally made it off the floor when he said he was calling EMS unless I could get up. Then he said I sat in a chair and held and pet the cat which I never touch because she bites and scratches me. I never get on my knees because I have really bad knee caps. Then he said I went from room to room looking in drawers over and over and asking the same questions over and over. I wanted to know where the "apartment we live in is? We've always lived in a house. He said he kept asking me questions which I knew the answers to.
I googled memory loss and it said memory loss can , among other things, can be brought on by coital PTSD.
I have absolutely no rememberance of any of this happening. He also said I hit my head when I fell out of the bed to get on the floor. First he said the back of my head and then he changed it to the front of my head. I have NO sore places anywhere on my head.
Could this be PTSD memory loss?
Any info will be greatly appreciated.

I would call your doctor and ask to be checked out. That sounds terrifying.

I saw something similar due to high pressure in the head caused by brain tumor. You should immediatly seek medical help.

This sounds horrific.

Pls google GHB and/or date rape drugs.

When did this happen. You should get immediately tested as these substances only remain in the body for a short period of time.

Be safe.

Sounds like a full disassociative episode. And yes you need to be checked out by a dr. If this was in the past 24 hours you need to go to the ED. They need to scan your head and do labs minimum.

Any chance he could have given you something?

[This message edited by tushnurse at 7:54 PM, Monday, November 27th]

This sounds like a medical issue rather than an infidelity one. I'm worried you had a seizure, or a TIA, or a stroke, or something. Your memory loss could absolutely be related to hitting your head. I suppose it could be PTSD memory loss but I encourage you to see a doctor about this immediately to rule out more pressing medical issues.

I don't believe him.

If you were behaving that way, anyone who loved you..or..anyone who hadn't drugged you..would have called 911.

I believe you may have done some of what he's saying. But I think he drugged you,and it sounds like he physically hurt you.

I wouldn't feel safe with him. Let's say he didn't drug you. He saw you in terrible distress, and did nothing. He didn't get you medical attention. It doesn't matter if you supposedly told him not to call 911. A person in severe distress doesn't get to make that decision. 5 hours on the floor,and he couldn't make a phone call?

Bullshit.

[This message edited by HellFire at 9:43 PM, Monday, November 27th]

I just read your other post. You believe he enjoys causing you pain.

Add in what you have posted here? I think you are in danger.

I only gave a quick response earlier because work.

Anyway. I don't have enough information to be able to respond.

1. Has this or anything similar happened before this?

2. Your situation and response to the trauma and how much trauma what kind of trauma has been inflicted on you will also play a part in this.

3. I hope your lack of response means you have sought medical attention. If not go get tested and at least get the incident on record. Especially if there is a chance or remote possibility he drugged you.

4. If this is possibly a true disassociative event then you truly need psychiatric care to deal with your trauma.

I hope you respond so that we can truly help you.

google Transient global amnesia or possibly drugged. you should seek medical attention.

Hi Beverly, Just checking in on you and hoping that you got medical help. Please check in when you can to let us know that you’re okay. Sending you a hug of support.