GotTheMorbs ( member #86894) posted at 11:07 PM on Saturday, October 17th, 2026
(hopefully, in a way that's mutually experienced as intellectually interesting--not maddening) at the margins.
Rest assured, it has been both! lol
It is not at all my position that infidelity is broadly a moral good.
Right, but if your goal is reconciliation, your position ought to be that infidelity is inherently morally bad and entirely avoidable if one so chooses ;)
Far too often in our hasty, mad quest to *Be Loved,* we lose sight of the fact that we are inherently, uniquely, and divinely *Loveable.*
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I'm not arguing... I'm calibrating
Unconventional (original poster member #87720) posted at 12:28 AM on Sunday, October 18th, 2026
Dear Morbs,
I’ll take… "both." 
I know I’m not easy to tolerate in large doses, so… thanks for your forbearance—and please take note: I appreciate your concern over my immortal soul’s behavior!
Yes, I absolutely want R with my W!
I do see infidelity as generally wrong.
I just need my W to wake up and resume treating me as her H (not merely calling me her H). Well, that and to let me have back my OW in an ordered and bounded and transparent friendship. I’ll sincerely be patient—and exclusively faithful—for a good long time! Oh! And forever with respect to my OW! Hopefully forever overall, in fact; that’s "Plan A," anyhow! You might’ve noticed how stubborn I can be? 
It really does take a lot to derail me from a Plan.
I’m just being an honest dealer that there’s also a Plan X, a Plan Y, and a Plan Z! That stated, I’m not going to be "prowling" any time soon. Me and my 5’7" bald-top middle-aged "rizless" Dad bod! LOL! 
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Sincerely, Unconventional
GotTheMorbs ( member #86894) posted at 12:08 PM on Sunday, October 18th, 2026
Is wifey aware of Plans X, Y, and Z?
Far too often in our hasty, mad quest to *Be Loved,* we lose sight of the fact that we are inherently, uniquely, and divinely *Loveable.*
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I'm not arguing... I'm calibrating
Unconventional (original poster member #87720) posted at 3:23 PM on Sunday, October 18th, 2026
Nope. But if Plan T starts to look possibly unsustainable, she will be.
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Sincerely, Unconventional
KitchenDepth5551 ( member #83934) posted at 7:21 PM on Sunday, October 18th, 2026
Nope. But if Plan T starts to look possibly unsustainable, she will be.
Nice dude. Here's a stupid story about me.
When I was around Morbs age or a bit younger, my favorite t-shirt was a picture of Tweety bird with him flexing and having tiny biceps. It said Vitamin-T in big letters. It was x-tra large. I was athletic and 5'5" and 120 lbs. I wore it to the gym often.
In the current environment, with all the T attention and commercials, I really want to see this t-shirt come back. As a 60+ yr old woman at the same height and weight with a different frame, I would wear this ALL the TIME!
Unconventional (original poster member #87720) posted at 7:30 PM on Sunday, October 18th, 2026
Uh.... As I used the term, "Plan T" wasn't intended to stand for anything other than the 20th-line plan. Like... if we burn through nearly all of the fallback options to Plan "A," then "wifey" ought to know that I'm nearing the end of my rope of faithfulness.
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Sincerely, Unconventional
