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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:37 AM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2020

(((Williesmom))) I’m so sorry for your loss.

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ClassicOak ( new member #71268) posted at 11:53 AM on Sunday, August 23rd, 2020

We just lost our pup of 15 years before Christmas. We'll see each other again at the rainbow bridge.

Me - BS, 60

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Booyah ( member #60124) posted at 7:29 PM on Sunday, August 23rd, 2020

So sorry to hear this!!

I know how hard it is to make that decision as well.

We had to do it three times over a eighteen month time frame about ten years ago. I cried like a baby each time.

Google the poem "The Rainbow Bridege". It brought me a lot of comfort.

Hang in there!

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imwideawake ( member #23386) posted at 12:52 PM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2020

I'm so sorry. (((hugs)))

Together 21 years.
Married 19
Me: BW
Him XWH
dday 9/08
3 daughters, now grown
Divorced 12/04/12

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DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 1:47 PM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2020

I have cried harder over losing a dog than I have over losing people. I'm so sorry. I know it's the absolute worst. I have six dogs and I know I have a mountain of grief coming my way when I lose them, but I have to consider it the payment for the invaluable love we share while they're here. Dogs just do not live long enough. The joy and comfort they give while they're with us is priceless.

DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).

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solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 1:10 AM on Saturday, August 29th, 2020

Oh, no! Willie entered your life around the same time Truman entered mine, and we were going through the maelstrom of confronting infidelity around the same time, too.

I know that, for me, having the solid, dependable (yet dependant--so no staying in bed!) canine friend was--is--key to my sanity. (I'm staring down the same barrel, and it's heart-wrenching.)

I can't express how sorry I am (for you, too, luvbug...).

BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams

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Myname ( member #23138) posted at 1:37 AM on Saturday, August 29th, 2020

I'm so sorry.

DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 45
12-08-10: S
Divorced and moved on with my life.

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emmalee82020 ( new member #75163) posted at 3:51 PM on Saturday, August 29th, 2020

So so sorry for your loss. Take care

Emma

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Sidonie ( member #3475) posted at 2:47 PM on Wednesday, September 2nd, 2020

I'm so sorry about Willie.

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SoHappyNow ( member #8923) posted at 7:58 PM on Thursday, September 3rd, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you.

In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus--------73 now. Dday #1 was 11/11/05 ***Used to be hit-by-a-train*** Widowed, then VERY happily remarried 2/14/14

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Thissucks5678 ( member #54019) posted at 12:58 AM on Sunday, September 6th, 2020

I’m so sorry. I just my dog too. It was terrible. After dday, I remember feeling that he was the only male that had always been there for me in my whole life. Man, that pain is awful.

I am so sorry to hear you’ve been going through this loss too. ❤️

DDay: 6/2016

“Every test in our life makes us Bitter or Better. Every problem comes to Break Us or Make Us. The choice is ours whether to be Victim or Victor.” - unknown

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